TOTALLY Inappropriate.

Yesterday afternoon while I was at work my mother and I had a conversation via MSN Messenger.  I was all types of upset afterward.  Someone please let me know I was not out of line getting upset with her.  Her helicopter hovering continues….

Mom: I noticed that boy is talking to you again… did he feel rejected after you left?
Me: ha yea. I haven’t talked to him on the phone in about 2 weeks.
Mom: hmmm….
Me: like the thing about him is he was one of those guys where I knew I had him if I wanted… it was too easy. He was talking about how an ocean between our relationship was hard but that “we could overcome anything after this.” Like I said I was open to dating other guys when I get back home but I am NOT open to relationships so soon. If at all.  We’ll see.
Mom: Sounds like the closed door you had with T
Me: nah
Mom: Do you even remember the whole logic you had about navy guys being in dead end jobs and that wasnt the lifestyle you wanted…

Me: I’m not open to relationships so soon because I don’t think its fair for someone to be in a relationship with me knowing that I’m on the phone with someone else nearly every night and that I can’t give my all to the relationship NOT because I’m waiting on him
Mom: so you plan already to talk every night
Me: uh yes he’s my friend…  regardless of anything else he is my friend and just so you know- I’m not going to change my mind
Mom: uh just so you know.. I wasnt asking you to.
Me: you implied that you were
Mom: no… that is what you heard.
Me: “so you’re already planning to talk every night?” what else would that mean?!
Mom: it means what it said…. so.. you are already planning to talk to him every night.. that is still a relationship.. but that is your deal
Me: yea it is.
Mom: “Life is like riding a bicycle. To keep your balance you must keep moving”
Me: planning on it
Mom: “One day at a time–this is enough. Do not look back and grieve over the past for it is gone; and do not be troubled about the future, for it has not yet come. Live in the present, and make it so beautiful it will be worth remembering.”
Me: okay mom. I get it
Mom: i am done and i am going to bed.
Me: I’m going to do what I’m going to do
Mom: I think your step dad wants sex.
Me: was that necessary?
Mom: your welcome. I know how to shut you up.
Me: J’s coming over tonight too
Mom: So? He does every night.
Me: Um NO. I see him on the weekends and thats really it.
Mom: Whatever. take some midol and chill.

Was that necessary?! Normal moms dont do that do they? Regardless I’m not going to talk to my daughter like this. Ever.  So angry following this.  But I had a GREAT workout… so the anger worked out for me I suppose..


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