My sister-in-law got here on the 5th and just left yesterday so I haven’t had much of an opportunity to get over here to write. But don’t fret. I’m here now.
I’m sure she expected her vacation to be a lot different. But if anything… it was very…. well lets just say it was very interesting and leave it at that.
What I did want to talk about was what my husband got me for Valentine’s Day. A surprising book to say the least. 101 Sexy Dares by Laura Corn. Now why is this surprising you ask? Because my dear has not even attempted to woo me sexually in a bit over 8 weeks. Yea… newlyweds and the whole “not tonight babe… I’m tired/have a headache/ don’t want to/ have to work in the morning/ etc.” has not only begun… but it has been flipped over and done to me. The wife. I thought that was my role. My job was to deny sex. Apparently not. But I digress… back to the book. This book is not a reading book but a doing book. Not kama sutra either…. that stuff is weird. This is a dare book. Once a week both Justin and I sit down together and pick out a dare. The only clue we get to what dare we may be picking is the title. Each dare can only be read once its been torn out of the perforated book. But once it is torn out…. it must be completed within a week. So basically you must be ready any time, all the time because you never know when your mate might perform his dare or when it might be the right time to surprise him with yours.
So my first dare for this week (we waited until his sister was gone) is called “Diamond Girl.” Ingredients: lots of jewelry, high heels, and candles. I am to put on all of my pretty jewelry and a pair of my highest high heels. And that is it. That. Is. It. Next step is to gether all of the candles you have in your house and line your room with them. Step three- call him into the room and begin to seduce.
I feel like a lot of these dares are going to be very interesting and I won’t want to perform them… but then again… if you don’t try new things then how in the world will you ever find what you like. I may feel silly doing them but maybe Justin will really like it… or maybe not and we’ll just laugh together the entire time. Either way… I’m very much excited to go through the entire year with a new dare each week.